Education consists mainly in what we have unlearned.
Education consists mainly in what we have unlearned.
Picking the best work experiences I've had is easy. I enjoyed the work at the time and look back fondly on my memories. It's the type of experience I hope my children have, at the least.
The first one was easy - I was a camp counselor the summer after I almost graduated (that's another blog
). Everyone I knew found this to be hilarious, and some were highly skeptical. They figured I'd teach the kids to drink & smoke. (I have to admit that's partially true as I let some of the older kids bum cigarettes off me a couple of times.) What these peeps didn't know is that I always enjoyed being with kids, but there's not much opportunity for that to happen in college.
I got hired as a tennis instructor, which was a bit of a laugh since I was average at best. I practiced for 2 whole weeks before camp to fix my serve, which resulted in the best serve I'd ever had (overcoming years of lackadaisical practice). I didn't really care about the tennis teaching - it was everything else about the job that was fun. Being with kids all day long was new but it wasn't terrible. Some of them were extremely engaging. Some of them were complete and utter douchebags (my bunk got ALL of the bad ones). Each day was an adventure, and I dealt really well with communal living (privacy was non-existent).
I recall very clearly how I felt when I went to sleep on most nights - exhausted, yet satisfied. The money was nothing special - barely $2k for 8 weeks (not counting housing & meals), and the next year I got some $25k/yr job doing a plethora of computer stuff for a PR firm, mainly so I could party in NYC. (I obviously had my priorities straight...) I really enjoyed camp counseling but never considered it again due to the money. (ps that PR job barely lasted 6 months - and I quit that job twice)
The other great job I had was about 5 yrs later. I landed an internship doing tech support for recording music into computers. I might have actually created the internship since I called the company and asked if they needed an intern. That job rocked - it combined 2 of my main interests: music & computers. At the time, I was in the process of racking up a shitload of debt, going back to school to learn audio engineering. (that was DUMB - I could've interned in a studio for free and was just looking for a way to skip that)
I loved the job though, poking around computers, troubleshooting hardware and learning every music program on the planet. I got to go to trade shows and chat with other music geeks. There was nothing I didn't like about the job - it was FUN. And interesting. They liked me too, and started paying me after awhile, and I accepted a job to work fulltime - then the company folded. And the 2nd temp job I had after that led directly to my worst job.
The lesson is simple - doing something that means little to you or doesn't engage you is a waste of time. And the decisions to take jobs 'just because' were all due to a need for money, independence or whatever. That changes over time, and I'm curious to see how well I've learned the lesson myself.
I'm with you.
I was a camp counselor for four summers, during and after high school. The camp was for kids with diabetes, WOW, what a learning experience. I loved it.
~Tracey
I found pictures last week
What memories. I wonder what some of my favorite kids are up to these days. It was in the Poconos, at Camp Cayuga in 1994. I remember watching a meteor shower one night and seeing the Milky Way in all its glory for the first time. I remember the darkness and quiet at nights too. As well as just being outside every single day.
If it weren't for my kids (in my bunk, not my progeny), I wouldn't absolutely love Ace Ventura. I cannot count the number of times a kid took a crap, came out of the bathroom and said 'Do NOT go in there. WOO!'
I wonder what some of my fellow counselors are up to as well - this was pre-internet and I've lost touch with Glen Barlow and Tom Foley (that's for Google). Scott Lancley, otoh, is a rotten emailer.
otoh, I would think twice about sending my kids to a sleepaway camp for weeks. Lots of counselors with little to no experience with kids. Some kids who were absolute shits and ruined things for others. And, sadly, some kids whose parents made sure they were unavailable for weeks to ensure that the kid couldn't be sent home.
And swirlies, of course. Who wouldn't want their kids to get their head stuffed into a toilet as a rite of passage?
Never.
Yeah, I'd never send my kiddos away to a sleep-away camp...they'd probably have fun as counselors later on, though! I'm not in touch with anyone from camp...too bad the internet wasn't more of a thing then. (Same with my high school graduating class...we can't even gather folks together to form an email list for reunions. It's a good thing I don't really want to see many folks from high school.)
~Tracey
HA!
Reunions aren't my thing. I did get in touch with one friend from high school via Facebook. Actually, I've gotten requests from college acquaintances there too, some of home I've pointedly ignored.
The way I see it...
...if there are people from high school or college that I WANT to be in touch with, I pretty much am already. Some people I wouldn't mind catching up with quickly, but not really be friends with!
~Tracey
exactly
Coincidentally, I was working on a post about friendships and stuff. The high school friend I got in touch with via Facebook I'm curious about seeing. We grew apart in college but we seem to be back on a similar wavelength again.
Bad e-mailer!!!!!!
It's called having a busy life..........
I'd happly chat with you ARP!!!!!
Life can move on sooooooooo fast next thing you know I'm married have a son and etc etc
Hey!
I'm not a bad emailer! I think I sent you a message on Myspace. otoh, I ignore anything I get from Myspace
. I've also emailed you at the old Hotmail account to no avail. Whassup?
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